Zame ni večjega dosežka, kot vzpodbujati avtentično osebnost v svetu, kjer nas na dnevni bazi prepričujejo, da moramo biti kot nekdo drug.
Živimo v družbi, kjer mediji ustvarjajo nerealna pričakovanja zaradi postavljanja estetskih in lepotnih idealov, ki so največkrat popačeni. Vse to nas pelje stran od 'jaza', lastne duše, kakorkoli želite temu reči. Naenkrat začnemo nekomu zavidati. Zavidamo njihov izgled, njihov uspeh, njihove dosežke. Bi se počutil bolje, na primer, če bi izgledal, kot izgleda nekdo, ki ga postavljaš na piedestal? Bi se počutil bolje, če bi imel to, kar ima nekdo drug?
ZAKAJ pravzaprav zavidamo?
Ti si POSAMEZNIK. To pomeni, da nihče na tem svetu nima, kar imaš ti. Ustvari iz tega svoj temelj, in na njem zidaj. Prenehaj želeti, kar ima nekdo drug, ker ne veš, kakšno pot je prehodil, da je to dosegel. Kar lahko narediš, je to, da vzameš vzgled. Ne moreš biti kot nekdo drug, lahko pa vzameš različne elemente, ki te navdihujejo in jih apliciraš v svoje življenje. Vse, kar si dovolj močno želiš, je izvedljivo. Edina stvar, ki je nima nihče drug, si ti. Tvoj glas, tvoj um, tvoja zgodba, tvoja vizija. Zato piši in gradi in igraj in pleši in živi, tako, kot znaš le sam.
Bodi navdihnjen, ustvari svojo pot in predvsem ne pusti, da te drugi na vsak način spreminjajo. Tisti, ki te hočejo postaviti na 'realna tla' ponavadi želijo, da sprejmeš njihovo verzijo realnosti. Ampak ena sama, samcata realnost sploh ne obstaja. Vsak od nas si ustvarja svojo, zakaj je ne bi ti?
Love,
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I've made this blog so I can help me better understand some difficulties I'm going through through in life. Through written word and my fitness journey I want to share my viewpoints on life, and maybe even contributing to someone's healthier lifestyle choices. I will be writing in english because my vocabulary is definately more developed in this language.
For me, there's no greater accomplishment than being your authentic self when living in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else.
We live in a society which is pushed by media driven expectations of aestethics and beauty. Looking up to those standards makes you drift away from your inner self. Based on that we suddenly find ourselves envious. Envious of other people, their success, their looks, their achievements. Would it make you feel better, for example, if you could look the way someone else looks? If you could have what somebody else has?
But WHY do we envy?
You are a INDIVIDUAL. Meaning there is no one on this earth that has what you have. Make that your base, and build on it. Stop desiring what someone else has, because you don't know what it took for them to get there. What you CAN do, is to look up to them. You can't be exactly as someone else, but you could take different elements that inspire you and apply them to yourself. Everything, that you want bad enough, is achievable. The only thing that you have that nobody else has is you. Your voice, your mind, your story, your vision. So write and draw and build and play and dance and live as only you can.
Be inspired, create your own way and especially don't let other people try to change you. Those who urge you to be realistic generally want you to accept their version of reality. But there is no such thing as a one and only reality. Each and one of us creates their own, why shouldn't you?
Love,
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