Že več let delam s strankami kot profesionalni nohtni stilist, zaradi česar sem spoznala kar nekaj vzorcev. Ljudje se bodo konstantno pritoževali. Našli bodo sto razlogov, zakaj nekaj ni možno, preden bodo naredili vsaj majhen korak do tega, da bi spremenili svoj pogled. Jasno je, da je lažje ostati v udobnem položaju stagnacije (bi imel kdo svoj mehurček?), poslušati tolažilne laži kot slišati neprijetno resnico - vendar potem nismo na mestu, da bi se pritoževali!
To je razlog, da ne maram brezveznega govoričenja o splošnih zadevah tja v en dan, vendar je konec koncev to ogromen del mojega trenutnega poklica.
Vse kar se tiče sedanjega trenutka, je produkt odločitev, ki ste jih sprejeli v preteklosti. Če želiš drugačen izid, sprejmi drugačne odločitve. Enostavno? Vem, ni. Ampak si potem res želiš spremembe?
Spremeni kar lahko, sprejmi česar ne moreš in spoznaj razliko med obojim!
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You should have a clear understanding of what you want, what you need and where you are trying to go. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you handle it. As a professional nail technician, working with clients for a few years made me realize a few patterns. People will complain all the time, and make up a hundred reasons why something isn't possible, they will even settle for the situation as it is before making even a small step towards changing. I know it's a lot more comfortable to stay in a given position, hear me say a comforting lie than the unpleasant truth - but then don't complain!
That's the reason I hate small talk, even though it's a huge part of my job.
Everything about the present moment is a product of decisions you've made in the past. If you want a different outcome, make a different choice. Simple? I know, not so much. But do you really want it bad enough then? Change what you can, accept what you can't and know the difference!
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